A good friend got much more than he bargained for when he took a bus ride during the rush hour recently. A young lady, around his daughter’s age, noticed him standing up, smiled, got to her feet and offered him her seat. My friend was mortified but I told him he shouldn’t be too quick to jump to conclusions because there were three possible ways of interpreting her action: 1 She was being polite and respectful. 2 She was thinking ‘Poor old git; he’s about to keel over’. 3 She had a thing about mature men and was trying to pull him.
Life is all about perception and so is our individual take on age - in ourselves as well as others. So, let us know what you think – was my friend being pandered to, pitied or pulled? His self-esteem is in your hands.
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